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Best way to get over an 8 yr crush??
Best way to get over an 8 yr crush??Alright, whats the best way to get over a super long term crush??? I really need to move on,. And when i see him??? well when i see him, I really have to stop visualizing what its like, to like, see him naked...
A 48 hour coke binge with a gaggle of cheap whores and even cheaper wine.
Seriously though, best way. Find someone new to crush on. Works like a charm. Nothing like killing one addiction with another one. Of course this just creates a viscious cycle that eventually will have to be broken, but I am a big fan of the immediate fix.
Honestly, time is the best healer. One day you will wake up and feel a little different and realize that you're getting over it. Until then, keep busy. Join a club, volunteer, go out with your friends, try new things, whatever it takes. Just don't sit around moping and obsessing about him!
If all else fails, try the coke binge and whores - instant gratification! I'd like to state for the record that despite my reputation I was not the one who initially suggested coke and whores! Natasha aka candygirl :: MSCL.com
Look, if this is weird for you, being tutored? I don't mind helping you a little longer. You could have sex with me if you really want to help...I guess that's a "no"?
I've heard that it also helps to dance around the room to Blister in the Sun when this occurs! But listen to Candygirl's advice, (at least in respect to this thread ), go out meet new people. Make a point of making blatent eye contact with any guy that you want to meet (lets us know you're not going to make us look like an idiot when we try to talk to you). Oh and if you really really want a guy to talk to you make sure that you are not always in a large group of people. Seperate yourself once and a while to give us a chance to talk to you alone or with one other friend. Most guys know that we're going to crash and burn when talking to a girl and we don't like to perform such actions infront of a whole group of people we don't know. "When I disagree with a rational man, I let reality be our final arbiter; if I am right, he will learn; if I am wrong, I will; one of us will win, but both will profit." - Ayn Rand
I cant wait for my Blister in the Sun moment, to feel as though Sean has been surgically removed from my heart! hehehe Thanks for all the advice guys, if its time answer, lets just hope this 8 year crush doesnt become a 20 year crush mglenn: thanks for the boy tips, maybe that has something to do with the fact im going on 3 years single...ill definitely have to try that... In response to the cheap whores: interesting theory, very interesting!!! ha ha and gave me quite a chuckle on this cold Thurs afternoon crushHmmm,
Everyone has their own unique way of getting over crushes. Everytime my brother had a romantic reversal of one kind or another he did pull ups. He did a lot of pull ups. IMHO just stay busy and before you know it you will have moved on to other things and other people. Best, Lance Man
Re: crushThat isn't a euphemism for...anything, right? Natasha aka candygirl :: MSCL.com
Look, if this is weird for you, being tutored? I don't mind helping you a little longer. You could have sex with me if you really want to help...I guess that's a "no"? Re: crushDirty! "I have all these dreams where I know exactly what to say. And you tell me, you know, that you forgive me."
Re: crushLOL! Bad candygirl, no doughnut for you. Best, Lance Man
Re: crushIs that a euphemism too? Natasha aka candygirl :: MSCL.com
Look, if this is weird for you, being tutored? I don't mind helping you a little longer. You could have sex with me if you really want to help...I guess that's a "no"? Who is onlineUsers browsing this forum: No registered users and 12 guests |