Posted: Aug 5th 2003, 12:52 am
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAW!!!!! I'm sorry, hon. My heart sank when I read all about it.
I think this is basically good advice but I disagree on a couple of points. I think she will contact you eventually even if she isn't interested. On some level you made her feel good but she isn't attracted to you at all. So she will contact you when she's feeling bored. When she does, let her carry the conversation, and if she wants to see you, you pick the time and place, let her pick you up, and let her pay for everything if you can do so without being really awkward about it. Don't just not go out of your way, make her do all of the work.TomSpeed wrote:You should probably put the ball in her court. Let her initiate contact with you. If she does contact you, you should be friendly. But you shouldn't go out of your way for her. It seems like you've done some groundwork. Odds are that she will contact you down the line if she is interested. It would be nice to have her come after you. But if she doesn't, it's no biggie. And you probably shouldn't try to be a friend with potential. Assume nothing's going to happen. You should also keep your eyes open for other possibilities. Don't let her bring you down. She is missing out on you.